Saturday, December 24, 2011

Are you where you expected to be?

Think back at your late teen / young adult years.  
  1. What were your dreams? 
  2. What did you expect your life to be like?  
Are you where you expected to be?   
If yes, fantastic, you must be in control of who you are and what you want.
If no,  What do you think went wrong?

You might already know what got in the way of your vision, however some are not so clear on "the what happened?", or "what went wrong?"
Understanding what you wanted / and currently want;  is very important as you have changed throughout the years, meaning your desires most likely have changed as well.   Understanding what kept you from fulfilling your prior goals is also key as this could have been caused by behaviors (blocks) which you still might be dealing with.   

These behaviors (blocks) need to be removed in order for you to achieve your goals.  You have seen their power in your life......they have stopped you from achieving what you wanted. However once you get clear and focused on your goals you can regain your power by removing these blocks from your life.  You might still feel the presence of such blocks but not be consumed by them.  When this happens you are in full control and ready to move on towards your goal.

I find this exercise to be very important as we learn from our past.  We don't want to relive our mistakes or painful events however we do want to find the lessons learned and use them to move forward. 

Another thing that is very important.....no matter what has kept you from achieving your goals......once you are clear...you have the opportunity to chase your dreams again.  

Its never too late as long as you are alive and well.

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