STOP IT or IT WILL STOP YOU!

You think that your friendly conversation is harmless?  You think that the debate as to who can succeed or not went unheard?  It was heard all right....it was heard by you. by your subconscious mind.  That conversation about what you would like to create and the ten reasons you will never create it did not go unnoticed.  It sunk in and it added more doubt.  It cemented into your soul and it reminded you why you will never get ahead.

That conversation was very harmful, because it breaks your spirit.  Just because there were laughs, maybe a couple of drinks, a good time with friends....does not mean that your spirit was not dimmed. In fact, you might have had a great time superficially yet your inner-self came out broken,, defeated.  "Oh well, it does not hurt to dream".

Look, we deserve better than what we are living with, we deserve better than what we are creating and we deserve better than what we are settling for.    Sitting around with friends chatting a storm about how bad our lives are and how it will never change is not helping you one bit.  It is only securing your spot in the Doomed section of life.  Why doomed?  Because that is what you created, you created a doom of heartbreaks, lost dreams, unfulfilled goals, etc.  We need to STOP IT!

Stop It or It will Stop YOU!  That is right, it will become stronger and it will not allow you to move forward.
You need to make a choice RIGHT NOW, to get clear on what you want, define the life you want to create and to make a commitment to give it your all.   No where did I say to go and get approval from your friends or family, no where did I say to get their insight.  You need to be clear on what you want, why you want it and go make it happen.

You might be thinking, "Yes but I could use their insight".   Really, can you?  If your goal is to become a business owner are you going to ask for insight from one who is convinced no one can make it unless they are born rich?  Are you going to ask someone who is afraid to try?  Are you going to ask someone who is busy reminding you of your past failures?

If you want insight, surround yourself from those that are busy making their dreams come true.  Surround yourself by those that do not use the words, "I can't, I don't know, I am not good enough, I am not sure". Surround yourself by people who fight for what they want and who will teach you how to become a WARRIOR!

                                                  Eileen Gonzalez - Life According to Me

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