Many of us are in our 40's wondering how thing got so bad...... we envisioned being better, debt free, traveling, living a life of freedom. Yet here we are, working two or three jobs just to be broke, trying to make ends meet. We cringe at the sight of the mail hoping not to get another collection notice and we lower our ring tone to not hear the collection calls. How did things get so out of control?
There are many reasons which caused the results we are currently living, yet as bad as it all has been, it does not mean it has to stay that way. You might be saying, "yeah right!, come walk a day in my shoes". Well I can invite you to mine as well, chances are you won't like it as much as I won't like trading places with you. We all have problems, but holding on to them, focusing on them day and night is not going to make them go away. So, what do we do? How can we make things change? We start by changing our mindset, getting clear on what we want, defining the life we want to live.
The past as painful as it was or is, has no place in our future. Whatever mess you are living in is simply the "residual effects" of our past. Therefore if we understand this, we can look at it as we would with spilt milk and clean it up. Yes, it's messy, might have gotten into places we did not see, but we can and will clean it up.
1- Define your life, dare to envision a life in which you can breathe, provide and enjoy life.
2- Define your goals and set time lines ( short and long term)
3- Replace your "I can't, or I don't know" with "I can and I am learning"
4- Stay focused on your goals
5- Re-create yourself, Re-invent your life
Let's be honest...if you are working 2-3 jobs, chances are you might be doing it for a while. This that I am offering you is not a quick fix...it's a change of mindset. It's a way to get you in a mental position so that you can start creating rather than just going with the flow. When we feel empowered, we create. When we feel defeated, we accept.
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