Why leave it to Monday to define what you need to get done? Why not now, right where you are?
Ten or twenty minutes of your time is not much yet it might make the difference to allowing you to stay focused on what needs to be done. It will allow you to effectively complete your work goals and tackle your personal goals without losing a beat. Choosing not to, will put you at the mercy of last minute priorities that simply show up out of the blue. Take control of your day, your week, your month and do it by getting organized. Create a task list to follow each day. Hold yourself accountable, prioritize them to ensure you are tackling the most critical first. Add notes to allow yourself to follow progress and complete pending items.
Get organized, be accountable and you will enjoy a much smoother week.
Sometimes you know you need help, but you push the envelope. You hope for the ceiling not to fall even though you see the cracks opening up. You want the car to not run out of gas even though gas light is on. You want to not lose your job even though you know things have not been going well. We need help but we don't want to get it.
Why do we do this to ourselves? There can be many reasons..... 1- we don't want to admit it to ourselves 2- we feel we nothing we will do will ever fix the situation 3- things will get better in time 4- we think we can't afford it
I am sure you can come up with a couple of other excuses. Yet, who are you hurting by ignoring your situation? Do you like your situation? Wouldn't you like to feel empowered to making the change you need? Who besides YOU, is stopping you?
Many times we struggle with the word sales.....some might even hate it. They want to make a profit while serving the community yet they struggle with selling. This happens to many thus many go out of business. Not only in a personal business formed by them but even in business ventures such as MLM companies. The format is there, yet they struggle to close the sale.
Look, if you don't sell you are neglecting to give a service. If you sell cosmetics, vitamins, diet products, clothing, spa services....if you don't offer it, people will not obtain the service they need. Sometimes they need what you have yet you are too afraid to offer it.
Don't worry about the ones that don't purchase from you, they either don't need what you have or have not realized it yet. You simply need to let them know you are here and ready to help them and how they can secure your services.
Still not sure about this? Well, let's think of this.
If your car needed a tune up or repair, are you expecting to find a mechanic to give you the service for free? No, right? He or She would charge you for their time and parts, correct? He is still doing something that helps you. In fact, even though you would have wished to not spend the money you are thankful you had it and he was able to provide the service. Why? Because you needed your car.
Same happens with your services. If you are a masseuse, don't keep it a secret, let people know you exist and set your price. People need you, but they won't come to you if you keep it to yourself.
You feel bad about charging? Well, you can't help others if you are broke, scrambling to make ends meet. Again.....a mechanic knows how to fix your car, yet he won't do it for free........why should you?
When I stare myself in the mirror, there are days I don't recognize me. I never imagined I could be this strong. I never imagined that others comments, complaints or opinions would simply slide off me as if I were covered in oil. I never imagined that loved ones would turn there back on me and that I would continue moving forward without missing a beet. I never in my wildest dream thought I would be exploring new ventures without someone to guide me, teach me or even a guaranteed outcome.
OH MY, who is this woman in the mirror? I can honestly tell you that not so long ago, when I entered a room, I thought my weight was being calculated from the moment I walked in. Today, Eileen walks in that door, I look others in the eye and I will speak my mind. Why?. Because I can.......that simple. It's not that I am more deserving, I am as deserving. I finally understood that the biggest limitations in my life were caused by my personal negative chatter, the personal low self-esteem and by always second guessing myself. I finally understood that I deserved more than I had allowed myself and that I was here with a purpose to fulfill and it was my GOD given right to pursue and achieve it. I finally understood that those that loved me did love me yet their role in life was not to define me. That was MY JOB!
When I stare myself in the mirror, I see a strong, determined woman. A woman who does not have all the answers but has much determination. I have the desire, the want, the mindset to go make it happen. How quickly will they come to pass? I am not sure, but I know one thing.....it's all tied to my efforts.
Where are you? How are you feeling about you? What are you willing to do to get stronger?
No one has a right to define you.....that is your right. You can choose to give it away, yet you will only reach your full potential, when you tap into your inner strength and pursue your goals, your purpose.
How did I change? How did I become this strong? I can tell you I did not do it intentionally. I just got sick and tired of feeling sick and tired. I got angry enough to put myself first. Hitting Rock Bottom for me was a gift....because I was able to channel all the emotions and use them to become A WARRIOR!
I hear it time and time again, "I hate my job". Chances are you don't really hate your job, you might hate your direct boss. This is the main reason for many people to lose productivity, miss work and at times feel overwhelmed with stress. So what do you do? There are many things we can try, starting with communication, asking for open feedback. Companies also offer employee resources, however if you are not happy, if you have reached that level in which you know beyond a doubt, "this is not the place for you". Then you need to do more than just complain, you need to take action.
What type of action? I have been in this job for over 20 years, this is all that I know. I don't want to start all over again. What if I am not good enough? - Sound familiar? That is the negative chatter that plagues many of us and which keeps us from moving forward. These are the thoughts that keep us prisoners of situations we don't want in our lives.
Ok....so you got me......you just described me. How can I overcome this? Well, first you must be certain this is not the right environment for you and be clear on the "WHY?" Second, you want to some research, understand your options, your preferences, available training's. Third, get your resume ready.......seek professional assistance to prepare a resume that will help you secure the job / career or business you "WANT'. Fourth get out there and apply......
All this you can do while you are working....... Did you know that while you are still employed you can begin this process, which helps you in several ways. First....you are more attractive while employedSecond...you take your mind off of the negative "doom" feelings and feel "empowered" toward change. Third...you redefine yourself which will reflect in your work.
If you choose to work in a job for the rest of your life, be it by choice not by settling for less than you want.
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It's great that you know what you want, you have clearly defined them, yet how committed are you to getting started and seeing them through? Many times we leave our ideas on the drawing board because others don't share our views, our beliefs or because they don't think we have what it takes. Yet who are they to define you? Who gave them the right or the insight to say what you can or can't do?
Your life is your responsibility and your dreams are yours to nurture. Therefore push all the obstacles aside, push the negative chatter to a corner and put all your focus on your dreams. Take those ideas, those goals and plan them out.
Research your Options
Lay out a course of Action
Set up specific, deliberate Timeline's
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Look, this is your life, your dreams.....it's time you live Life According to YOU.
In thisFREE exercise we will help you define your current situation, help you clearly define the life you want, search for viable options and make the commitment to follow through
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Are you ready? What will I need? Simple - you need a pen, notebook & an open mind
Be prepared to did deep inside to truly understand the root cause to your problems.
Many times we are quick to label our problems yet we don't get down to the root cause.
If left unidentified, we continue to make the same mistakes and our situation simply gets worse.
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